What flavor is the behavior?
We can’t just order up what we want
I Spy Resilience! waaaay over there…
Fewer Battles + Creative Resistance
Making things NOT happen is a kid-level superpower.
Your Creative Invitation
We're not built to digest the world's challenges independently.
No punishment is big enough…we’re going a different direction
Rewards and consequences don’t yield true and lasting behavior change
9 Remedies for MidSommer Madness!
Our best bet for catching our breath is finding a tiny slice of what we can handle in the middle of the mess.
Self-Tending is Mending
Tending to yourself is essential to your capacity to be regulated and available.
📣 Cooperation without whistles and bullhorns
Tiny Moments of Connection Are Magic
Connection doesn't have to be a full-time job
When you’re all out of juice…Pause and refuel.
Anxiety is catchy. So is co-regulation.
Shoulds We Can Shed
Does bad behavior get all the candy?!
3 ways to help your kids (and yourself) get a grip
Anchor Kids Without Crushing Their Superpowers 💥
Being a Lighthouse ✨
How Not to Let Stress Gobble You Up
Tuning into regulation before behavior gives us options for responding.
Saying “no” gets you a BINGO!
Boundaries come in many flavors. Clarity of our own capacity is essential.
Playful is not permissive
Discipline means to teach, not punish.
Why Does Yelling Seem to Work?
”I don't like yelling. I hate it. But it’s the only thing that seems to work…”
Setting Limits Like 1, 2, 3...
Neither punishment nor being permissive will help them learn new strategies.